Why oral sex is very important in a relationship – Never let good head fall to the wayside. Sexuality is an integral part of any healthy, well-balanced relationship. Sex helps to bring you closer in a way that only romantic relationships can foster.
The importance of sex is tailor-made in any given relationship. Where, how, and how often you have it is totally up to the two (or more) people in an intimate and loving relationship.
That being said, oral sex also plays an important role in healthy relationships.
Sexuality is not just confined to penetration. All forms of sex are relevant.
It can be easy to fall into a routine once you’re settled into a long-term relationship — foregoing oral sex, exploration, and sex toys in favor of scheduled coitus — but you should try to avoid this.
Keeping things fun and intimate is paramount to ensuring a strong bond between you and your partner. Sex shouldn’t be something you have to do, it should be something you want to do.
Oral sex shouldn’t fall by the wayside just because you’ve found your groove with someone you really love.
Oral sex is really good for healthy relationships and shouldn’t be left on the back burner and here’s why:
In order to develop a healthy relationship, you’ve got to give a little to get a little. Oral sex is all about giving.
I’m not saying getting your rocks off while giving head is impossible. There are ways to get off while giving a blow job or cunnilingus, such as this nifty “orgasmic meditation technique” that Cosmo can’t seem to get enough of, but oral sex is mostly an act of giving. It’s not exactly easy to have an orgasm when your face is full of dick/clit and your mind is concentrating on rapid bobbing or tongue swirls. It’s a LOT to have going on.
When my partner goes down on me, it makes me feel close to him. It’s an act of love that shows me how much he cares about my pleasure. That’s not to say that oral sex should be the ultimate barometer in measuring the closeness you have with your partner, but a willingness to regularly engage in oral sex is a true sign of your adoration.
Sign me up for more oral and a healthier relationship any day.